TENDER FEELINGS!!!

Tender feelings in a human being develop a sense of satisfaction towards all those who are exposed to him. Such feelings are not hard to develop. All along, we find ourselves ‘not guilty’ and are prone to look faults in others. Why do we absolve ourselves of the sins that we commit? We may just be habitually in the mind frame that creates undeserving feeling for others.

We may scold our children or juniors for just such things that we do not approve. We may as a boss just like to dictate to our subordinates, who may just not approve the style. We may simply admonish our seniors or elderly people for imaginary episodes. However, such episodes may have an impact that may simply be uncalled. If we are powerful, we may abuse the power and put other innocents to cripples.

We read in the media, that a few siblings of a highly placed officer, just violating traffic or creating ruckus at public places; such offenders often go Scot-free and are saved from the process of law. There is blatant misuse by grabbing public property or property of weaker people who just cannot oppose the mighty persons.

Eve teasing /purse snatchings have become tragedies of every day. The girls are considered objects of fun. Thus, vulgar remarks are passed and rapes attempted on hapless girls. In 21st century, we are akin to being in a feudalistic society. Musclemen are used to browbeat the weaker sections. Slogans are written that nurture hate among communities.

Viewed in this scenario, we feel as if we have come to an age, which is feudalist. How can we transform this behaviour? I feel we can accomplish this by nurturing tender feelings for others. No foolproof methods can be prescribed, yet there is strong possibility if every individual human being tries to change himself by kindling the tender feelings for others, the task will become simple.

This transformation is bound to affect the humanity, and grow seeds of love and compassion among families then in the locality and then cities, nation and finally the world. Let us Join the movement by focusing on one’s self and then preach it. Tender feelings arouse similar feelings among fellow beings that lead them to care for others.

Join this Awakening movement and contribute for world peace.

Satish Chandra Sharma,

General Secretary,

Chandigarh Social Welfare Council,

Chandigarh

A Post Graduate in Economics from University of Delhi and a Social activist now. Presently as General Secretary of Chandigarh Social Welfare Council, an NGO, am working in the field of up gradation of infrastructure and regularization of the General Power of Attorney holders in cooperative housing societies at Chandigarh.At my initiative, Chandigarh Administration has done a re-look into the matter raised by me. The rules sought to be applied till now have been observed as “repealed” by the JSF, Chandigarh Administration, yet some of the junior level functionaries are passing on the matter to their seniors in a mechanical manner and hence the woes of the hapless GPAs have yet to be redressed by the Administration. I shall continue writing on the subject and every subsequent article shall endeavor to bring out the anamolied

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